Haha if only life worked this way. When we were faced with this situation I said to Dr. Denker (as I am crying hysterically), "This is just not what we had planned." He told me some wise words that day, "Hun, you don't plan your life. God plans your life." Wow! This is so true. If anyone would have ever said that to me before I probably would have responded with, "No life is about the choices you make and the effects they have on your life."
Beni and I had this all planned out really, Engagement: 6 months to 1 year. Marriage: 2-3 years. Kids: 3-5 years. HAHAHA is what I say to that now. NOW we have decided to do it all backwards.
I am not a person who believes that just because you are having a child together you must get married. But let me be clear, if Beni were to ask I would say yes in a heartbeat. Although, we would then postpone until after we have our child. We both love eachother very much. We are very committed to making the best of our nontraditional situation. We both intend to be great parents and that is what our focus is and needs to be on at this moment.
So for all that are chomping at the bit, Yes I would love to marry Beni and would do it today. But our decision is to hold off until we can put all of our energy into making our special day as special as possible.
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